There was a time when I believed that love was just not for me. After several years of failed attempts at finding love online and in-person in New York City, I had all but given up. I felt like a  total failure because I had spent all these years trying to find love, and ultimately ended up with nothing to show for it. I was an accomplished woman with a great career and financial success, however there was a chapter of my life that I was ready to write, however despite my best efforts I couldn't find my a qualified co-author.

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After 7 years of nightmare dates, ghosting, lies, disrespect, verbal abuse, emotional abuse, being told that my standards are too high... I finally decided that 2015 would be the year that I finally gather up the courage to get back on the dating apps and find my future husband. So on a snowy January morning in 2015, I woke up, downloaded OkCupid for the 100th time  and registered for a free account. I decided that I would do something radically different and that was... I would no longer search in the United States.. but overseas in Europe. I thought to myself : "Adamma, if you want something you've never had, you have to go somewhere you've never been."  Though I had visited Europe many times, my DATING PROFILE  had never been placed there. So I decided to do that and within a very short period of time, my now husband reached out to me with the most polite and well written message I had ever seen. When ladies ask me how I knew that my husband was the one, I often smile and simply answer " I just knew". As unhelpful as that answer might seem, ladies its simplicity highlights its honesty.

 

My dear sisters, it is quite unfortunate that there are no proper trainings to help women understand how to discern scammers and timewasters from serious men. Many of the clues are practically invisible to most women. Over the course of my 7 years on the dating apps, I mastered the art of deciphering and decoding unserious men. I am happy that I can be a guiding light to you in your life to help you become a professional online dater that finds your Mr. Right SOONER rather than LATER!

 

Book a 1:1 session with me today and let me help you start winning this online dating game!